Mrs. Betty Carlson
In 1922, a little baby girl was born to Harley
Hallgren and Louise Tjernlund Hallgren, daughter of Rev. Axel
Tjernlund,
one of our former pastors. (See Church
History,
1916)
As a little girl, Betty Lou had curly blond
hair. They attended the Swedish Baptist Church on Flanders Street.
She quite often went to the Women's Mission Circle in various homes with her
mother along with "little Evans" and his mother. This was before Temple
was built. (This year 2002, is the 75th anniversary of the completion of
the building we now worship in.) Betty was introduced to the Women's
Ministry very early!
The Temple young people were a very
active group. They even printed a paper called "The Temple Trumpet."
The girls had "pajama parties" and on one of these occasions they met at Marj
and Phyllis's home (because it was the biggest). Betty, along with Maydora
Westerlund Johnson, Dorothy Carlson Bishop, Viola Anderson Christiansen, Marion
Johnson (Earl's sister) and Astrid were in their pajamas and sitting around the
big family table in the kitchen, when who should crash the party but Dave
Carlson and Earl Johnson!
Betty's mother developed
Rheumatoid Arthritis at that time so Betty did a lot of the cooking.
After high school graduation, she worked for many years at Meier and Frank in
the office. About this time there was a young man named Bob Weibe, who
said he needed help with math and got Betty to help him. Another young
man, Dave Carlson, was there too and he was the son of the church
custodian. About that time Dave Carlson and Earl Johnson took off
for Bethel, and soon after that they joined the Navy. The boys came home
from WW11 and settled down with jobs and got back into church
activities.
Betty often assisted the church secretary at
various times. The Columbia Conference often held an all-conference get
together during the summer at Lake Retreat - our summer camp. In 1949
Evans and I were newlyweds and we always went to these celebrations. Dave
brought Betty to this one. (They had been dating unbeknownst to us.)
As we were heading down the hill to the dining hall, here came Dave and Betty,
arm in arm and absolutely radiant. I asked Betty what was going on and she
smiled and said, "We're engaged." That's all the details I can tell you on
that subject.
After Betty had her own home she was always
entertaining, when she wasn't busy with little ones, Mary Beth, Ann Louise, and
little Peter! It got crowded in their house, so they moved into a
beautiful brick home large enough to share with the three H's: Harley Hallgren,
Father; Helen Tjernlund, Aunt; and Helen Hallgren, Aunt. Betty and Dave
managed the whole tribe quite well - 3 Senior Citizens and 3 children.
Peter loved that house. He was a very busy little boy who must have driven
those two maiden aunts crazy. One time Peter decided he was Superman and
stood at the top of the stairs to the second floor and actually tried to
fly! Not too much damage, but a scare for his Mom and
Dad.
Betty held various offices in the Women's
Mission Circle. The Temple women are all great cooks, and we all helped at
the big church dinners, showers, etc. She also was a deaconess and
because of her experiences with "older seniors", she enjoyed visiting and
helping. Betty and Dave sang in the choir for many years. They were
also administrators at Oregon Baptist Retirement Homes and it was at this time
she taught ceramics and made the manger scene that we have displayed every
Christmas.
When the new Day Care addition was built Betty
Carlson, Katie Koerper, Heather Anderson Neafie, Jane VanRyn and myself (Marilyn
Nelson) served
as the New Kitchen committee for the Upper Room. We had a wonderful time
planning the new kitchen. Mr. Ken McCarthy, who donated the kitchen to
Temple, and his daughter, who sold and outfitted large professional kitchens,
completely outfit the kitchen.
Dave and Betty owned
a little restaurant for a time and she gained valuable experience there as well
as working in two different eating establishments. You are all witnesses
to all the wonderful meals Betty and Katie have prepared.
Betty's Diner continues to be a wonderful asset for Wednesday night activities.
Copied from the account written by Marilyn
Nelson and presented at Betty's Retirement Dinner on February 10, 2002 in the
Upper Room at Temple Baptist Church. Marilyn also personally stated to
Betty, "You have the gifts of hospitality, mercy and service, and a great
quilter! I am so fortunate to be your sister in Christ. You are an
inspiration to me!
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a
great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin
that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out
for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our
faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and
sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured
such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose
heart."
Hebrews 12:1-3
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